before, we'd only normalize the sublists that had already been
sized manually. As non-sized items still have flex-basis: auto,
they would claim all the space, and mixing sized and unsized items
would be badly broken.
Now, on the first click, all items are sized to their rendered size
which means they won't flex anymore, but at least the resizing works
this way
Another downside is that when resizing while a sublist is
collapsed, it's reverted to 100px and if a size had been set before,
it's forgotten. No way around this with this approach I'm afraid.
